Wedding Officiants


Price Range $250 - $650


2Wed4Life is a wedding officant service based in San Diego, California. Pastor Carlos Sales, a licensed officiant of over 26 years, strives to create a beautiful experience for each client, developing ceremonies that are fun, memorable, and a perfect reflection of the couple. Having conducted over 600 ceremonies in numerous venue types—including churches, hotels, wineries, and hot air balloons—Carlos is open and able to accommodate any of your requests. Channeling the unique personality of each couple, Carlos strives to give his clients the ceremony of their dreams. Carlos has a team of seasoned officiants that back him up if he is not available on your wedding day.

Pastor Carlos & his team at 2Wed4Life will help you create Your Ideal Ceremony – a beautiful and personal experience that is fun, memorable, stress-free, and, most importantly, reflects you! Read our testimonials and see why 2Wed4Life is the highest rated wedding ceremony network in California.

Vendor Profile - Pastor Carlos

Pastor Carlos



Our fees range from $250 – $650 based on various factors (i.e., day-of-week, time, location, size of wedding, ceremony, casual or formal, officiant, etc.). Don’t let a little extra cost keep you from hiring one of the best on your once in a lifetime wedding day!
I have performed over 600 weddings in churches, on the beach, in parks, resorts, wineries, yachts, and even in a hot air balloon!
I will get you two involved in the process of creating your wedding ceremony by giving you options to review and to tell me what you would like to include in your ceremony. I will provide you with many ceremony options in various PDF’s. After I get your feedback, I can write your ceremony, and then schedule a time to review it with the two of you. I have created many custom ceremonies: unity candle, sand, tea, wine, hand, etc. all to reflect the unique personalities of each bride and groom. I have also written customized vows and pledges for many couples to suit their individual preferences and unique situations. Couples can repeat them after me, or write and read their own vows. He loves working with couples to create a custom ceremony that is fun, memorable, and reflects who they are in a special way.
Pastor Carlos has been trained to do various ceremonies, as well as pre-marital and marital counseling. He has an excellent online counseling tool that he uses with couples called Prepare/Enrich. After taking the Prepare-Enrich online assessment separately, which evaluates various areas couples typically have disagreements (i.e., communication, conflict resolution, finances, partner styles & habits, leisure activities, sexual expectations, family & friends, relationships roles, spiritual beliefs, etc.) you will meet with Pastor Carlos for a 2-hour session. He will share with you from the 30+ page assessment report your strengths as a couple and show you how to strengthen your potential growth areas. Additionally, he’ll give you a Couple’s Workbook that has exercises to help you strengthen those areas together as a couple. He will also share with you from his personal experience how he and his wife, Lisa, have kept a strong marriage for over 34-years. Typically, your 2-hour session will be in the privacy of his office. However, it can also be done over the Internet on Zoom. This is the best investment you can make for one of the most important areas of your life! Learn to enjoy marriage for a lifetime, not just endure it!
If I am not available, then we have a team of associates at 2WED4LIFE that would do a wonderful job for you. They are all hand picked by me and most of them have over 20-years of performing weddings. They all have great personalities and are excellent public speakers.



5 Reviews for 2Wed4Life

  • Charlie R
    Charlie R wrote a review November 21, 2021
    Japanese Friendship Garden Wedding

    Pastor Carlos was an absolutely wonderful officiant for our wedding! He was recommended by our reception venue, Tom Ham's Lighthouse, and for very goo...d reason. When we initially reached out to him, we scheduled a video call so he could get to know me and my then fiance. He walked us through his process and how he plans and personalizes weddings for each of his couples. He and his secretary are both very responsive throughout the ceremony planning. Closer to our wedding date, Pastor Carlos sent us options on how we would like our ceremony to go, including vow options, ring ceremony options, opening and closing statements, as well as asked about personal touches which for us was a unity cross ceremony. After making our selections, he then personalized the ceremony for us. He gave us a call to walk through our final ceremony and to guide us on how to best make everything go smoothly on wedding day. He arrives before your guests on wedding day so he can check in with the couple, and also get your marriage license situated so you and your spouse don't have to worry! I cannot recommend Pastor Carlos enough.

    Date of wedding: 11-07-2021

  • Nesly C
    Nesly C wrote a review November 8, 2021

    Pastor Carlos, He took time to meet with us before the wedding to get to know us and go over everything which was nice and made us feel so comfortable... on our wedding day. He was the perfect mix of personable, funny, and gave an amazing scripture centered around what marriage should look like. He was perfect for us and we are so grateful we got to have him be our guy on our special day! Thanks again, Pastor Carlos!

    Date of wedding: 04-16-2021

  • Alexa M
    Alexa M wrote a review September 22, 2021
    Great Ceremony

    Through the stress of planning a wedding, working with Pastor Carlos was easy and fun! We were so happy to be able to customize our entire ceremony an...d include items that were important to us. The ceremony went perfectly!

    Date of wedding: 08-20-2021

  • Matt  S
    Matt S wrote a review September 11, 2021
    Outstanding Officiant

    I work at a wedding venue where Pastor Carlos has officiated many of the weddings. I noticed that he was always early and very professional. Depending... on what the couple wanted he was dressed appropriate either in formal attire, religious attire or casual. So when it came to our wedding he was an obvious choice. Days prior to our wedding he went over our vows and custom tailored them for our needs and wants. He provided many options for us to choose from which helped us out because we didn't have anything planned to say. We had a casual, small wedding in our yard (thanks COVID) and he performed our ceremony. He arrived early and performed our wedding beautifully. Very personable and friendly person and I highly recommend him for anybody's future wedding.

    Date of wedding: 08-06-2021

  • Nancy B
    Nancy B wrote a review August 1, 2021
    Fantastic officiant!

    Pastor Carlos was phenomenal! We had several guests come up to us to say what a wonderful officiant he was! He is so personable and relaxed when that neither myself nor my husband felt nervous saying our vows! Pastor Carlos was great at communication and responded quickly to any questions we had. You are able to choose which items you want in your ceremony, so that made us feel like ours was unique! Thank you again Pastor Carlos for making our day so special!

    Date of wedding: 07-09-2021

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